My claim to legitimacy is first based on the values I was raised with which engraved in me a profound respect and appreciation for all humans and females in general.
Then the topic of sexuality and intimacy is something I am passionate about and researched extensively. I wish to share my knowledge and experience to bring comfort, pleasure and to enrich the life of others.
Other practitioners will charge a lot more than I do and if money is an issue you can probably find someone on dating sites that you wouldn’t need to pay...
This is not a full time occupation for me and compensation is a small token for the time and effort I spent honing my craft.
You feeling safe is paramount to me and essential to yield the best experience. Due to the nature of the service and the desire for discretion and privacy it can be a challenge to find the perfect solution. I've had ladies who had set up a system with a close friend with whom they would do timely check ups to make sure all was fine. I have had husbands / bf / partners being in the room or next room for peace of mind. I am also happy to do a casual meet and greet at a place of your choosing to discuss and for you to decide if you'd be comfortable in booking a session with me.
It is important that you have a clear intention in regards to what you are hoping to get from your session.
I will invite you to share your preferences, boundaries, mental / emotional state, body's orgasm profile, physical challenges etc. and any other info you are comfortable sharing and you feel is relevant. This will allow me to take these aspects into consideration and tailor the session to your specific needs and desires.
Dialog and communication are key with all aspects of sexuality and intimacy and should be part of this exercise to ensure a rewarding experience for everyone involved.
I cultivate a courteous demeanor combined with an openness to inclusivity and non-judgmental attitude. I take pride in gifting a loving and pleasurable touch to all. Mutual respect of boundaries is observed and expected in return
Time is precious to all, I am punctual and reliable and expect the same from you.
I have very high standards for hygiene and I kindly ask you have the courtesy to be freshly showered shortly before our session.
That is a good question. It depends on your definition of sex and your moral compass. It is a one way (i.e. from giver to receiver) intimate sensual massage with genital stimulation that may provoke orgasms. There is no fluid exchange as I only use my hands so to be explicit I do not provide oral sex or penetrative sex.
I understand the need for discretion and privacy and I hold myself to the highest standards in that regard. The questionnaire and any conversations we have are only to guide me in tailoring the session for your specific needs and know that anything you share with me will remain strictly confidential.
Drink lots of water in the hours leading to our session to be fully hydrated but make sure you empty your bladder before the massage. I kindly ask that you are freshly showered, ideally no more than 30 minutes prior to our session.
Please have 2 large towels, one to lie on and one to drape, glass of water close by, put your phone on silent mode.
I wear gym attire. Some tantra providers insist on performing their massage nude, not me. I believe this would be distracting and remaining fully clothed is a crucial distinction that this massage is focused on you.
At times, I get a request to send my face pic to verify if there is chemistry. I don't do this nor do I ask for one (or any pics for that matter). Not that I am a total squid but for the simple reason that this is not a hook up and being attracted to each other is irrelevant. Not to mention you will be face down for most of the session and won't even see me!
It is part of the experience to emancipate yourself from such typical constraints. It's about feeling your body, experiencing new sensations and receiving pleasure in its pure form. Do you choose your doctor or dentist based on their looks?
I perform the massage completely sober and my session is designed to relax you so you should not need any drugs or alcohol for that. I want you to be fully there and not distracted or mind altered. But then I can't really stop you from doing it prior to our session, it's your choice in the end. In a situation where I realize you are not in the right condition to receive the massage I will politely ask we reschedule and leave.
As I am building my business and establishing my reputation this is a way for you to try a yoni massage if you never experienced one. I am convinced that once you've tried it you will want to repeat the experience.
I will also offer you a free session if you allow me to take a few photos that I would use on my website. Rest assure they would be the anonymous type where you wouldn't be recognizable. I can also edit / mask any identifiable features such as scars, tattoos, birth marks at your request.
Word to mouth is my best advertising. Refer me to a friend and I will gladly offer you a free session. I will honor the referral once I have massaged your friend. Please remind her to mention your name when she contacts me.
The answer is no! Despite being an intimate session, it is the intention and focus that makes all the difference. I've been fine tuning my session for years now and taking inspiration from an imaginary session that perhaps Cleopatra could have experienced. I see myself as your humble servant, your are a Goddess and I perform a sacred ritual and worship every inch of your body.