FAQ

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 My claim to legitimacy is first based on the values I was raised with  which engraved in me a profound respect and appreciation for all humans and females in general. 

Then the topic of sexuality and intimacy is something I am passionate about and researched extensively. I wish to share my knowledge and experience to bring comfort,  pleasure and to enrich the life of others. 

Other practitioners will charge a lot more than I do and if money is an issue you can probably find someone on dating sites that you wouldn’t need to pay... 

This is not a full time occupation for me and compensation is a small token for the time and effort I spent honing my craft.

 You feeling safe is paramount to me and essential to yield the best experience. Due to the nature of the service and the desire for discretion and privacy it can be a challenge to find the perfect solution. I've had ladies who had set up a system with a close friend with whom they would do timely check ups to make sure  all was fine. I have had husbands / bf / partners being in the room or next room for peace of mind.   I am also happy to do a casual meet and greet at a place of your choosing to discuss and for you to decide if you'd be comfortable in booking a session with me.  

I cultivate a courteous demeanor combined with  an openness to inclusivity and non-judgmental attitude. I take pride in gifting a loving and pleasurable touch to all. Mutual respect of boundaries is observed and expected in return.

Time is precious to all, I am punctual and reliable and expect the same from you.

I have very high standards for hygiene and  I kindly ask you have the courtesy to be freshly showered shortly before our session. 

It is important  that you have a clear intention in regards to what you are hoping to get from your session. 

I will invite you to share your preferences, boundaries, mental / emotional state, body's orgasm profile, physical challenges etc. and any other info you are comfortable sharing and you feel is relevant. This will allow me to take these aspects into consideration and tailor the session to your specific needs and desires. 

Dialog and communication are key with all aspects of sexuality and intimacy and should be part of this  exercise to ensure a rewarding experience for everyone involved. 

I understand the need for discretion and privacy and I hold myself to the highest standards in that regard. The questionnaire and any conversations we have are only to guide me in tailoring the session for your specific needs and know that anything you share with me will remain strictly confidential.

I use Holly oil,  a popular choice among massage therapists  . It comes from the branches and leaves of the holly tree and is then de-ionized. A water based Vitamin E (Cyclo-Alocaine) is then added along with Jojoba as a therapeutic moisturizer and to add glide.

This non nut-based oil is unscented and non-staining. Holly oil is non-comedogenic and will be absorbed by the body with no ill effects. 

I have very high hygiene standards. I will wash my hands right before a massage. 

I wear nitrile gloves for the yoni part of the massage. 

The vibrator I use is always washed / sanitized before and after each use. I can certainly use your personal toy. 

My hot stones boil for 5 minutes.

I ask that you are freshly showered before the massage, no more than 30 minutes before the session. 

Drink lots of water in the hours leading to our session to be fully hydrated but make sure you empty your bladder before the massage. I kindly ask that you are freshly showered, ideally no more than 30 minutes prior to our session.   

Please have  2 large towels, one to lay on and one to cover you, water bottle close by, put your phone on silent mode.

I also recommend wearing a sleeping mask for when you will lay on your back. 

I wear gym attire. Some tantra providers insist on performing their massage nude, not me. I believe this would be distracting and remaining fully clothed is a crucial distinction that this massage is focused on you.

I sometime get a request to send my face pic to verify if there is chemistry. I don't do this nor do I ask for one. For the simple reason that this is not a hook up and being attracted to each other is irrelevant. Not to mention you will be face down for most of the session and won't even see me! I will also encourage you to wear a blindfold when lying on your back to help you focus on the sensation and not be distracted.  It is part of the experience to emancipate yourself from such constraints ,experiencing new sensations and receiving pleasure in its pure form. Do you choose your doctor or dentist based on their looks?

I normally don't but I'd be lying to say it never happens. I'm human after all and in some situations my body can react sympathetically to the sexual energy that floats in the room.  

I don't let that distract me and I never lose sight of the intention and focus of the session.

I pride myself in offering a professional and safe experience. A reputation takes years to build and seconds to destroy.  

It's quite normal and natural reaction to want to reciprocate when receiving pleasure and some women need that extra physical connection to help them climax.  While I discourage you to touch me in a sexual way,  feel free to grab my hand or arm, even hold on to me in the heat of the moment. 

I perform the massage completely sober and my session is designed to relax you so you should not need any drugs or alcohol for that. I want you to be fully "there" and aware of what is going on. However, if taking cannabis or a glass of wine  won't affect you negatively then it's up to you. 

In a situation where I realize you are intoxicated and not in the right condition to receive the massage I will politely ask we reschedule.

That is a good question. It depends on your definition of sex and your moral compass. It is a one way  (i.e. from giver to receiver) intimate sensual massage with genital stimulation that may provoke orgasms. There is no fluid exchange, I only use my hands, i.e.  I do not provide oral or penetrative sex.

  Word to mouth is my best advertising. Refer me to 2 friends and I will gladly offer you a free session. I will honor your referring once I have massaged your friends.  
Please remind them to mention your name when they contact me.(Note that it does not include the rental of studio if you choose that option)   

I can offer you a $100 discount with your permission to take a few photos and short videos during the session that I would use on my website. Rest assure they would be the anonymous type where you wouldn't be recognizable.  I can also edit / mask any identifiable features such as scars, tattoos, birth marks at your request.  

If funds are limited and you're not camera shy this can be an option for some.

You opted for my free session in exchange of photos and short videos but now you changed your mind and want me to take them down.  No problem I understand. As per our agreement, I kindly ask that you pay me for the session and will take care of it. 

I can arrange for another pair of hands to pamper you or your partner at the same time. I have both a male and female practitioner I can call. 

Contact me for further discussion.